The heading Marry or not 2 Marry itself brings smirk on our face (talking about bachelors only) and an anguish expression on most of the people who are married, thinking I wish I would have given a thought before getting married.
I must say I have seen few good men who say they are happily married. The reason of saying that is, may be they are satisfied and they understood the value of togetherness. If this is not the case, then there might be a fear that they won’t get good homely food (biwi ke haath ka khaana uski gaali khane se to acha hi hota hai) and every day coloring with partner with out even using the eraser (remember recently released movie SEX AND THE CITY). Now no matter what the case is no one will call these married men as eligible bachelors again. Only they can get a degree as compensation even without going to college that is BA. No No No no no, not Bachelor of Arts but a degree which they can get only after the divorce i.e. Bachelor Again (I wish no one should consider this degree).
Giving a thought that its time to get married, blood rushes through my veins and DARK big monster comes in front of my eyes and tell me that your wife might be most beautiful in the world and she might care for u a lot but remember u won’t be same Anoop ever again. Means no more hang out with friends every other night. I have to pick up every damn call, tell where I am?? With whom, what am i doing (as if I color the whole world and I am still not in news) and worst last liner I can ever think of, “where are your credit cards I need to go for shopping”. Why in India shopping mall guys doesn’t check whose credit card it is and is the signature matching or not? Hope they start doing that till I get married (if I am going to).
Every time some one asks me whether I am married or a bachelor, I reply back saying I am happy. May be I am unable to understand the happiness that comes on a man’s face when he see his wife or kids after a long tensed day at office. At least someone is there to give unconditional love him. And won’t set targets for him to be with his beloved family for rest of the life (even a bottle of scotch or vodka doesn’t set a target to be with…only the problem is every time u need to buy new one ;) ). The Feeling of being a super human when your partner holds your arm tightly while, watching a horror movie as if you will be the savior if ghosts appear in real. Those three beautiful words and a warm hug when u needed most… (Hope I don’t need to write what are those words).
There are few reasons not to marry but lots and lots more to marry. But one should give a big thought when and with whom to marry. Here is a ROAMER who is ready to settle down and wants to feel the essence of new phase of life….
Fcuk* now I have to think whom and when to get married…. ;)
* Sorry to those who think its an abusive word, see I have changed the spelling so that its nice to read
7 comments:
As an eligible Bachelor your fears of getting married are realistic.. Hope you will find your sweet heart soon and start the new phase. Sure, you will post another blog on "Get Married!!! Its now or Never" ;)
Okay, so after so many thoughts one thing is clear that.. Yes!! no matter wht it brings, Roamer wants to get married now.. Good Good.
Try n crystalize the second thing.. ;o) What are you looking for.
hmmmm, very well written, I like the positive thought on to 2 Marry.
according to me, there is pros and cons for everything, a REAL coin has two sides.. similarly thr r adv/disadv of marrige.. but thats how life goes..
We live n enjoy every phase of life…….. At any juncture if you feel that you have enjoyed your bachelorship thoroughly (though its hard to conclude) …….. then that’s the right time to get married.. Coz life at the other side (post marriage) is even more beautiful. (While getting married u r forced to be optimistic in your thoughts…..)
Hmmm..this blog brings out the fear of Roamer to get married or not.. I would strongly recommend you to look at only the lovely phase of life that you have described in the second part.. becoz those friends whom you would miss after marriage might nt be available for night outs as they, I am sure, would enjoy their married life:) dont worry abt the credit cards either, today girls can afford to splurge money, they are no longer dependent :) so be cool mr. roamer.. go ahead and find a perfect life partner to enjoy your rest of life ;-)
self introspection is a good thing. since u r doing it and as u decide on things firmly u will get what u want.
want to ask u something...do u really bother wht ppl tell u ???
:)
take care.
hey there!!! why such a cliched topic???every second bachelor with a blog writes on to marry oe not to marry.... as if u r entering a haunted house... well, the credit card part could be!!! ha ha. but jokes apart, as u said more that anything else, its the companionship and someone to come back home to that matters. rest all is mniscule.
so go on... start looking around and pick your choice. and about boys time out??????? that can always be negotiated... ha ha...cheers!!!
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