D for Dosti ya fir N for next….

How often u meet someone online and u realize there is a lot of chemistry going on. Of course it’s not H2SO4 chemical formation every time u meet some one online but u still feel like yapping yapping and yapping. Sense or no sense, useful or useless; till your system is connected to the network u try to get online and search for tht someone whether he/she is online or not.

When u don’t have any thing to talk about, u just ask few of the most silly Questions like What is the time (as if u will reverse back the time if its not of your liking) and the best part is tht u still get the answer every time (as if the person on the other end believe u can change the time).

Or u ask… How r u? Can u believe every single time u get online and u ask how r u? (Man things rarely change in a day’s time to ask this one)

This question is just too much to answer… Lunch??? Now some body tell me what that means,” is the other person hinting at going out for lunch or asking “did u have lunch”.

And to this Question u still answer the one he/she is not asking for….yaa we can go out( for Lunch) sometime on the week end….Loh ho gaya popat :P

All these questions arise when u don’t have any thing to say. But as I said too much chemistry between the two (u and the other person who is online). Does is really matter that u have never seen or met the person? No it doesn't as you have created the fantasy world where he/she is more handsome than Tom Cruise and sexier than Salma Hayek.

Now when u have something to say and u can just talk about any thing:
Guy: Hey have u ever been in love?
Gal: No. I don’t feel like I need some one.

ROAMER’s little knowledge says when a girl says no to this question that means regardless she was ever in love before or not for sure she might fall in love with u.

Same Question but now the guy has to answer and guess what, u ask this question to any of the men out there reply will be …
…Oh Hell Yaa…….and trust me tht only means, Yaa they have been kicked atleast once in a relation (what so ever may be the reason) or Yaa u might be the new girl in his life. (Hope needless to ask which Yaa is for the ROAMER)

Conversations go on and on… u never know what will happen then….

D for Dosti ya fir N for next….

Search of another online frd or a beginning of ever lasting Friendship :)

Marry or Not 2 Marry ...

The heading Marry or not 2 Marry itself brings smirk on our face (talking about bachelors only) and an anguish expression on most of the people who are married, thinking I wish I would have given a thought before getting married.

I must say I have seen few good men who say they are happily married. The reason of saying that is, may be they are satisfied and they understood the value of togetherness. If this is not the case, then there might be a fear that they won’t get good homely food (biwi ke haath ka khaana uski gaali khane se to acha hi hota hai) and every day coloring with partner with out even using the eraser (remember recently released movie SEX AND THE CITY). Now no matter what the case is no one will call these married men as eligible bachelors again. Only they can get a degree as compensation even without going to college that is BA. No No No no no, not Bachelor of Arts but a degree which they can get only after the divorce i.e. Bachelor Again (I wish no one should consider this degree).

Giving a thought that its time to get married, blood rushes through my veins and DARK big monster comes in front of my eyes and tell me that your wife might be most beautiful in the world and she might care for u a lot but remember u won’t be same Anoop ever again. Means no more hang out with friends every other night. I have to pick up every damn call, tell where I am?? With whom, what am i doing (as if I color the whole world and I am still not in news) and worst last liner I can ever think of, “where are your credit cards I need to go for shopping”. Why in India shopping mall guys doesn’t check whose credit card it is and is the signature matching or not? Hope they start doing that till I get married (if I am going to).

Every time some one asks me whether I am married or a bachelor, I reply back saying I am happy. May be I am unable to understand the happiness that comes on a man’s face when he see his wife or kids after a long tensed day at office. At least someone is there to give unconditional love him. And won’t set targets for him to be with his beloved family for rest of the life (even a bottle of scotch or vodka doesn’t set a target to be with…only the problem is every time u need to buy new one ;) ). The Feeling of being a super human when your partner holds your arm tightly while, watching a horror movie as if you will be the savior if ghosts appear in real. Those three beautiful words and a warm hug when u needed most… (Hope I don’t need to write what are those words).

There are few reasons not to marry but lots and lots more to marry. But one should give a big thought when and with whom to marry. Here is a ROAMER who is ready to settle down and wants to feel the essence of new phase of life….

Fcuk* now I have to think whom and when to get married…. ;)

* Sorry to those who think its an abusive word, see I have changed the spelling so that its nice to read

The Birth of an Identity...

Day before yesterday I was thinking that I should pen down my feeling, desires, experiences and moments in life which makes me smile every time I think of them and motivate me to achieve what I dream. So, I decided to enter in this Blogger’s world. To write a blog I need to have an identity which can summarize my yesterday, today and my tomorrow in one word.

In this wonderful life, I have faced the impediments, tasted the success, seen the hallucination of being together and endless support from parents, family and friends.

At the age of 11 yrs I joined Sainik School, only because my brother never liked to study there. I didn’t gave a single thought that what I will achieve? How the environment will be? What I will learn or what I will become?

I did my intermediate studies in Medical sciences with Mathematics because my dad wanted me to do that. Its not that he forces me to do that it’s just I never knew what I want to do? I did BCA because it was new dimension in studies still no clue where life was taking me. Yet another cross road and yet another path SAP certification.

Now Here I am, riding on both absolute and relative happiness, setting targets for myself, knowing my aim. I had falls and prepared to face it all, but only TO RISE better then ever.

But still I don’t know what the path is, just ROAMING around the practicalities of life and Strings of emotions. I am ROAMER who is an Optimist, a Believer and a LIFE.